These monthly horoscopes are based on the Solar chart, so be sure to look at your rising and moon sign too!
Explosive erotic energy heats up the beginning of the New Year…you’re on fire, hotter and more potent than any fireworks display! January has so much potential; you can rev up a flagging sex drive or impotent relationship, take control of your wandering eye and imagination, and surprise a lover with a whole new way of approaching your relationship. Keep in mind that this will all involve work, of course, and some compromise…are you up for it? Can you step back and listen…can you learn to touch (kiss, lick) your lover’s body in a slower, more romantic way? Let your partner’s wants, needs, and desires shine in January and you will find that you can set the stage for a happier, more connected relationship in the year to come. If you can’t compromise and listen, expect fierce arguments and some deterioration within your sex life…this could mean you spend more time with your hand (or toys) or end up feeling completely alone…
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 6, 8, 12, 19, 22, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
There’s a deep, low rumble rising up from within…a sense of feeling restless, perhaps even discontent, within a sexual relationship in January and you aren’t exactly sure what to do about it. Doing nothing does not seem to be an option now, particularly on the 19th and 23rd. Heightened erotic energy may seize you unexpectedly and lead to physical frustration if you are unable to have your needs met by a lover. If you’re feeling trapped within a primary relationship, you may decide to take a lover now…you need to release the magma burning through your veins. You may need the help of an experienced man (or woman) who can open up that crater and let your stormy sweet lava explode out in a satisfactory release. The longer you must wait for release, the stronger - perhaps even painful - your orgasms will be…refuse to stop at one…you need to get it all out. I don’t think you can do it on your own, but you could have fun trying…
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 6, 8, 12, 16, 19, 21, 23, 29
Best Sex Mates for January: Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Contradictory energy could send you reeling this month…one moment you are eager to explore every tiny bit of your lover’s body and the next you are feeling disconnected, even cold, toward your partner and yourself! You may want to spend some quality time with a lover away from the daily grind, but the world won’t stop spinning long enough for you to plan a quick erotic getaway…hell, it won’t even let you unplug the phone without something falling apart! With luck you are already involved with an understanding man (or woman) who can ride this crazy energy out with you without placing blame or becoming entirely fed up. Thwarted passion can make anyone upset and erratic; if you are bringing a lover almost to the point of orgasm but then you lose your ‘touch’ and your lover is left flushed and panting, be considerate and try to help them over the edge even if you’ve lost interest…it may not be very exciting and your lover may completely lose it anyway, but not trying at all would suggest that you simply don’t care…don’t go that route if you want to be with this lover again in the future.
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 8, 19, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
You may feel like turning your sex life upside down as the new year opens…if you usually like it straight missionary, you will want to spice things up now in the raunchiest way possible…on the other hand, if you are typically an adventurous dynamo with whip in hand, now you will want it to be ‘innocent’ (ok, pretend!) and sweet. Face to face coupling could replace the backdoor slam…or vice versa. The New Moon in your opposite sign of Capricorn on the 8th offers an window of opportunity to make amends in a long-term partnership or finally throw in the towel and move on…any amorous surprises coming from a partner could be connected to a long-distance lover, educational issues, or an ongoing lawsuit (a foreign secret lover…an affair with a professor…a hot hook-up with a lawyer). Don’t handle the situation by burying your head in the sand! Being aware of the competition could be all you need to stir the embers in your loins and challenge you to create a stronger, more open and erotic connection with your lover…
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 6, 8, 19, 22, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces
Hidden or unrecognized aspects of your sexuality may leap into your (or your lover’s) awareness early in the new year…even if you wish to keep this part of yourself quiet, a lover is likely to have his or her finger sunk right in on the pulse of your deepest erotic desires. Don’t be shy when it comes to allowing this energy full expression…if you aren’t feeling ‘safe’ enough with a lover, it’s time to ask yourself why. If this fear is arising from within, explore it and gradually work on opening it further…if, however, the fear is due to feeling insecure within a sexual relationship (or he or she is cutting you down for having what they see as unusual needs) maybe it is time to let go of this lover so you can find one more understanding and kinkily compatible! You’ll certainly be questioning whether this person can fulfill your sensual needs throughout January, with a deeper focus on the 6, 10 - 12, 19, and 22nd, when the Moon shines gloriously full in your own sign.
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 6, 8, 16, 19, 22, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces
As a Virgin you are feeling oh, soooo not yourself as January opens. You certainly aren’t in the mood to be overwhelmingly responsible or work-driven, as you typically are…and you don’t really want to forgo your own needs to meet the many demands of others. It may, at times, seem as if there is a lil’ devil sitting on your shoulder urging you to ‘screw them’ - literally and figuratively! - and there’s no doubt that you REALLY do want to let your hair down and play. Can you ignore the wild call of your own heart? Can you repress your potent sexual drive and channel it into creative projects? Perhaps, but do you really want to do this?? There is a distinct need for sensual release as the new year opens and no matter what your rational mind says, your libido is in the charioteer’s seat and you may be in for a rough and bumpy ride if you continue to cling so tightly to old worldviews. Let go and see how much more fun life - and sex - can be…
Best Sex Dates for January: 6, 8, 9, 12, 19, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Romantic Interludes: Romance? It’s all about need this month…
Sex is sweeter when you feel your soul entwining with a lover’s…as the new year opens, you are likely to be deeply involved with a partner you are contemplating making your one and only sexual playmate, forever and a day! There is a sense of feeling rooted together, as if you are no longer separate individuals but are firmly entrenched and enjoying it rather thoroughly…mmmm…if you are traveling now, be sure to put out the ‘do not disturb‘ sign if you want to keep your erotic activities to yourself! Although you may typically be a more adventurous lover who wouldn’t mind inviting the housekeeper to join in, you aren’t so willing to share your current partner. If (for whatever reason) you aren’t so seriously involved, there is certainly potential to meet a new significant lover - possibly from a foreign country - in January but whether it would last is another matter all together…
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 12, 19, 22, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Subtle, sensual communication will be the poker that stirs the fire within…the erotic sparks may suddenly flare up again in January after a few months of remaining relatively dormant (or repressed). It isn’t that you haven’t wanted sex…it is more that you haven’t wanted to indulge sexually with a lover who has been over-the-top emotionally (and likely taking it out on you!). Your need for emotional security and deep sharing may have been lacking recently, but whether by choice or convention it’s hard to say. As the new year opens you may be determined to make that deep connection with a lover again. If you aren’t satisfied at home, you will look elsewhere to fulfill your needs now…for some of you, this simply means you will explore an intimate emotional connection with another but keep your panties on. For others, you may be ready to escape the dungeon and explore those potent erotic urges, no matter the cost…
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 6, 8, 12, 19, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
Romantic Interludes: 6, 23
Karmic Complications: 2, 8, 17, 29
Tarot card to focus on: The Moon
Suggested Crystal Journey candles to use: Astral Journey, Problem Solving, Wisdom
Expect mini-explosions throughout the first month of the year as you struggle to come to terms with the changes taking place within your romantic life. Letting go of a long-term relationship or learning to shake it up and out of the dreaded boring routine it has fallen into is, plain and simple, WORK. You may wonder if you have it in you to make the necessary changes…have faith that you do! Sexually you may be feeling a little slow on the uptake, as if your hormones or blood flow are sluggish or incapable of sustaining your interest long enough to do the deed. Try not to feel too discouraged if you start off passionately only to find your desire flagging before you’ve satisfied your lover…or they’ve satisfied you. Cuddling, stroking one another, and just connecting physically in general is an important part of building (or rebuilding) a sexual relationship…the less pressure you put upon yourself, the better your performance will be.
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 8, 19, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius
It’s all about you in January… what you want, what you need, and what you expect in a sexual relationship. If a lover can’t give you what you ask for or require - be it emotionally, materially, or physically - you aren’t likely to stay the course or waste any more of your energy trying to get excited about pleasing him or her. You’d rather please yourself! That attitude may leave you feeling rather lonely and unloved at times throughout the first month of the year. Your libido is likely to fluctuate with your moods; when you are feeling horny, you will need orgasmic release now…good thing you’ve had plenty of practice in pleasing yourself sensually over the years as your fingers may have their work cut out for them this month! While you may desire to attract a new lover, your heart and mind aren’t on the same wave-length. The schism between what you think you want and what you really need seems to be growing…this could lead to emotional upsets and a need for more time than ever alone.
Best Sex Dates for January: 22, 23, 29
Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio
A conflict is stirring deep within that could set you at odds within a sexual relationship. Although you are generally a social person, the energy of January will pull you deeper and deeper into your own self-made emotional cocoon. It won’t be easy to express to a lover exactly why you aren’t knocking down walls to jump his or her bones but they may ask anyway! Your investigative and exploratory nature is still alive and functioning, but right now you prefer to explore your own inner world and personal direction rather than the nuances of a lover’s body and sensual needs. Sex, when you have it, will likely be initiated by your partner and you could just go along for the ride in order to please him or her. It may be better to speak up and let them know that your drive is a bit depressed right now rather than just put out and then potentially resent it later. You are in control of your own actions, so don’t project angry sexual vibes out onto your lover if you give in to their more excitable needs!
Best Sex Dates for January: 2, 19, 22, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Gemini, Sagittarius
Romantic Interludes: 8, 16, 19
Karmic Complications: 6, 10, 11, 16, 22
Tarot card to focus on: Nine of Cups
Suggested Crystal Journey candles to use: Laughter, Motivation, Positive Energy
A deep attraction to a ‘friend’ or co-worker may dominate your emotional landscape for much of January…you may not know what to do with your more erotic feelings, especially if you aren’t certain if the desire is returned. This is tricky territory and you may want to deny your urges rather than take a chance on losing them as a friend or upsetting the atmosphere in the workplace. No matter how hard you try though the feelings may refuse to dissipate. Each of you will handle the situation differently and external complications may well inhibit a relationship from going any further than the two of you already share. One or both of you may be married or otherwise involved. Even if you aren’t happy in a current relationship, Saturn in your opposite sign of Virgo is going to do his best to keep you toeing the line and ensure you do everything in a ‘proper’ manner. If you can’t let go and indulge in a fling, prepare to spend many hours buzzing your way to bliss.
Best Sex Dates for January: 8, 12, 19, 23
Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn
